W's out and has openly announced OM to all

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I wonder if S wasn't sticking his toe in the water? How will dad react? Maybe a little guilt as well. My W had OM playing video games and talking sports with S as well as bringing our kids around his to further cement the bond. That is what they do to make it all OK I think. It isn't fair, it is seriously screwed up, but what isn't in their heads these days. I also wonder if she hasn't had OM around them before. Be ready for more anger and disappointment. Keep on the high road you've been travelling and like was suggested be the good man that you have been and that your kids need. I think my W does it for the drama or the reaction she gets out of me. Like Tawnya said about her H, you just sort of get a "what's the big deal" reaction out of them. File for D and then BK. If there is any joint debt you will take her down with you and if she is hiding money then she will end up screwing herself and not you. Like someone said on here. You are now in a fight. That is why it will say Married Crazy vs. Crazy on the divorce papers. You will be gald you did. She is not your friend anymore, she quit that with the first A. You are just a nice guy like me who is in it for the best for his kids. Approach the divorce with that mentality. As many people have told me, "you are the stable one, do everything you can to keep that stability in their lives." They deserve you and you deserve better than her.