Hey Jeff, I know it is better at this point for son if h just left.
You know, h is going to live with ow's mom. She was like a second mother to my h (he lost his mom when he was 13) when he was seeing the 0w thirty years ago. She never got over the tow of them breaking up. I have no doubt she jumped at the chance to offer her house so he could leave his family. She has been waiting 30 years for this. Ow and her mother where classless all the way back then. I see nothing has changed.
But, I am not sure if his affair is as hot and heavy as it was. It doesnt seem to be.
H just told me he is goig for several days. I just said, ok whatever. I dont know what to do db wise, but I am ready to put my foot down and say, you cannot come and go as you like. If you are leaving, you need to leave. I am starting to really get annoyed by this c*ap!