Again, I am standing firm and want my W back. i want to build a new life together. I am holding to that belief, I have faith in what I am doing and pray that this Faith leads her to me. Waiting is the enemy with me right now, I must do, and what I must do is walk and stick to my goals. she is not a part of either.If I can hold her out of my head, then the detaching process is wroking, if not, I will try something else. DB'ng isn't really working for me other than helping me move forward, it is doing nothing for us...But I like what its done for me and everyone around me likes the change. No, she is not around me and I don't really care what she thinks. Look at her current status, yeah, I care what she thinks...God help her, she needs it.