One thing our relationship taught me is ‘actions speak louder than words’. I have grown to believe in that more today than ever before.
Sometimes, I wonder how I can communicate some things without words. How can I show someone who I am, what I stand for, what I believe in, and what I prefer without using words?
I hope that I show you in my behavior that I am happy getting to know you again. I enjoy your company, and I like you.
How do I show you that to have a relationship with me doesn’t mean ‘to be all or to have nothing at all’? How do I show you that I prefer to experience fun with you—being light and happy? I am interested in doing what brings joy and laughter.
I am enjoying finding my strength and inspiration independently. If I can help to make the ones I love all that they can be, I would find joy in that, too. If you don’t know me by now, that is who I am.
I am trying to show you that I like you very much. You are charming, smart, talented, and fun to be with. I am trying to show you that I prefer to enjoy your company, but that doesn’t mean that either one of us has to give up our lives, our friends, our interests, our dreams, and all that it takes to make our separate identities.
How do I show you that in my behavior?
How do I show him that in my behavior? I'm not sure I can. Maybe a letter will be sent to him one day. I'm not sure.
