I will be active duty for 2.5 more years (as will he). I should deploy this summer. There is no gunning it right now as he has filed. The D will be final in a few months and there is nothing I can do. I'll have think creatively like you suggested... Unfortunately at this point, we have little contact.
I am thankful I'm young and we don't have any kids, assets, etc. It's so much simpler than many stories on this site. But unfortunately it doesn't help my broken heart
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09