My H makes me just shake my head. I got a call saying he had some late movies, so I IM'd him. He tells me the rehab place called him to let him know that there is family counseling on Tues-Thurs and he said he couldn't go. I asked why and he said because he needed to work. I asked if next week wouldn't be okay and he said he didn't know...but, he didn't want to travel TWO times to the place. (ie, visiting day and then a counseling day. he wanted to do one or the other.)
As I pointed out, we could do visiting day on Sun and then counseling Thurs- not like it would be two days in a row. I also said that it sure would be great for SS to know he was important enough to travel for.
Good Grief!!! The kid is crying his eyes out because he doesn't feel important to his Dad and then Dad can't bother himself to travel more than once. ARGH!
WTF is wrong with this guy? I have a feeling he will change his mind, but why does he even have to think twice about this? At first, I was concerned about "showing up" my H if I went by myself, but I think I will need to go no matter what so that SS *knows* he has support when he gets out.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
