I was just reading your thread and I want to say you have done an amazing job!!! I know that the last thread didn't sound so rosey, but all in all you have really done very well at taking care of yourself and making yourself appealing to your H. I'm no where near piecing, in fact I'm on the other end of the spectrum, but I just wanted to see your own sit--you've commented on mine so many times. Thanks for the advice and I sincerely hope everything works out for you. You give me hope--not necessarily that my W will come back, but that I can be happy w/out her. Good luck to you.