Quote:
Even though I wasn't perfect, I have done a lot to try and save this M over the last 15yrs. We almost split up two times before and I hung on. I shouldn't be faulting myself anymore.


PRECISELY!

I understand the emotions starting to surface. Vent away!!! Right now, it looks like your stbx would bring nothing but heartache to the table.

((((L_L))))


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing