Even though I wasn't perfect, I have done a lot to try and save this M over the last 15yrs. We almost split up two times before and I hung on. I shouldn't be faulting myself anymore.
PRECISELY!
I understand the emotions starting to surface. Vent away!!! Right now, it looks like your stbx would bring nothing but heartache to the table.
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Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing