Hi Snodderly,
Thanks for your post. Yesterday I spoke to a male friend who my H was quite close to. He wrote to him a few times and when our first D hearing took place last year they even met. I found out that my H did not write to him for Christmas!

Yes, you are so right - H is following the book.

Today I had to go shopping. At least it was sunny but still very cold. I hope this bug did not get "woken up" again by me going out. It did last time. I also had to move the car as the battery gets quite low in this cold. I had to drive around for a while to charge the battery before doing the shopping.

Hopefully, I will be OK by Friday as I would like to go to a Jazz concert.

I wish you a good week. Take care.