Partner left after 9 years - He's 'confused' now

[GFI]

Hi there Ali - this is a turn up - I guess you weren't expecting this!...

I have no specific advice...I've said somewhere before on these boards that i don't think "advice" is particularly helpful - cos no-one else really knows the posters particular situation...

but i do have some observations / questions...

Understandably, like many of us - you get thrown into a loop when something like this comes through from your ex...

Its a positive "reaching out" - what do you make of it? You know you ex better than anyone here...

Right at the moment - everything must be screaming at you to reply - right?

What is going to be most positive for you? In the short term? In the long term...

Perhaps think about this like a game of chess...

Ali - I know you have the answers...

Everyone here will be with you, no matter what moves you make...

take care - GFI