Detach>Worse>Weird>Better ???

[Sophie]

You and your children know otherwise, so let it roll off your back. You can't change his perception of life right now

You are so right, Snodderly. It is very hard to accept that a mature, intelligent adult male can make up such crud. He knows I had nothing to do with his decisions to walk out and file a D.

He keeps stating that he did what he did because our marriage wasn't 'blissful' or 'peachy' at that time...and it was not a one way street that our marriage was that way.

I keep telling him I agree that it was a two way street UNTIL he walked out!!

After the time I have spent detaching...which is longer than I let on (at least 1 1/2 years)...that convo ridiculous. It's like arguing that 2+3 = 5 with someone who insists it equals something else.

I'm new at the D/Lawyer stuff...but, I've been dealing with H walking out since april 2006! I fought hard for a year...then have been working on GAL and detaching since Labor Day 2007! It's like 3 to 5 steps forward, then 1 step back...for me. The steps forward increase more and more. I come here right before...or right after those back steps...to keep me away from WASband.

Thanks for always keeping an eye on me