I like the 48 hour rule. I would write it all out and save it to draft. I realize now that most of my "bad" reactions and rash decisions were based on emotion. The more I detached, the less I got caught up in the MLCBS.
Our MLC'er can NOT be our focus, or our reason for living. Yes, we love them, we want our Marriages saved, BUT we are also worth something, we are the prize, NOT them.
Keep working on you, keep living your life, and sooner or later they will come sniffing around.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
