Partner left after 9 years - He's 'confused' now

[RefuseToLose]

Ali,

I would respond, but not be over anxious to write back. If he feels you are waiting for him, he may back off again.

You said:

Sad isnt it, that they can move on to someone new and be ok.

It is sad, but I think they are hardly ok. Instead, I think they are just in denial.

Their repressed emotions, guilt, and other feelings will come to the surface sometime, but we may never know about it.

So, they won't say good-bye b/c it is too difficult. They also won't accept fault as it will force them to feel guilt and shame for what they've done.

RTL