My W called 2 hours after reading the letter to discuss it but I had already asked her to think about it and pray about it for a few days before we talked about it, so when she called I told her I thought she needed more time to think about it before we talk. So, I won't know her response for a few days. My current thread is entitled "Is She Cheating?? New Thread," but my old thread was "Is she cheating?? Please respond!!" I think you got some encouraging words from your H, more than I've ever gotten from my W, but I too worry about the cake eating. Definitely watch his actions!! I can understand the no ML part of it; it just wouldn't seem to make sense when there's not an emotional connection. But, at the same time, the physical can help mend the emotional. Just take it one day at a time and definitely watch his actions. I do worry about contact with the OW--that really does have to stop, but maybe you lure him back in even stronger and then make that demand?? Set yourself a deadline at the very least.
