Just remember, she filed for a D so I doubt she is trying to weasel her way back.
What I mean is weasel her way back to the 'status quo' where she gets to come in the house and hang with the girls like she was doing. Make it so I'm not mad at her so she can get back some of the 'benefits' she had.
Originally Posted By: Jeff223
But to silence the little boy I am glad I let the anger phase run its course. It had to.
That's it exactly Jeff. I knew you'd give me another clue. It is the 'little boy' who in my case was abandoned as a child.
Originally Posted By: spitfire23
The good news is it happens less and less. Eventually, I believe I will only feel compassion whenever I remember anything about what happened.
I'm sure I will also. I can see how messed up we both were.
Originally Posted By: Bworl
Time. And moving forward. And slowly but surely letting loose of how things USED to be.
That's the ticket.
How things used to be is what I need to 'let go' of. It was mostly good, but it was rarely 'great'.
