I know. My H got me 2 doz long stem red roses for V day last year. What I didn't know, was that he was already in the PA with the OW. F'd her a couple of times, but still bought me the flowers. Crazy, huh? I guess what I am trying to say is that it is all unimportant. I thought I had a good V day, but it actually sucked. I just didn't know it until months later.
So don't dread anything in advance. Embrace each day as you have it in your hands. Everything may change tomorrow anyway!
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.