Hi PM {{{hugs}}}
I know this is a tough time. Like you, my H is angry with me everytime we spoke and I would feed into that so he could justify his actions, say I nag him, preach etc. I have detached from him as much as possible lately.

My IC said that a WAS will find reasons to me mad and basically "re-write the marriage" so he has justification to cover his own guilty feelings. That is what your H is basically doing.

My H has filed D papers on Friday. I do not want this and have spoken to any atty about a Fault D for adultery. I am going to try and delay this with hopes that H will tire of the A (I can just continue to pray) take care and stay strong.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09