That is why I need to stay outside for the kids. Just have them meet me at the car from now on!!!
I agree with this. I've never even been over to H's apt. once. That would be too painful to see all the OW's crap around, plus she and her kids hang out there too. Yuck! I can't imagine how painful that must be to see a picture of them posing like the happy couple. Glad she looked bloated!!!
I do think you belong here, H. You know Kat and I and some others here are in the same kind of boat as you. And I don't think you have given up 100% I don't think or you wouldn't be so upset by the picture. I don't think it's unreasonable to put a time limit on how long you're willing to live in limbo (as long as you don't let her know the date). I do wonder someetimes if you filed that your W might wake up, but she might not of course. And I don't think it's wise to rush into divorce, but I don't know that you should live in limbo for years either. I know you deserve better than you're getting. There's no doubt about that!!! (((((H4h)))))) Karen
Glad she looked bloated!!! 
