What you describe sounds great to me. Nothing wrong with removing yourself from the field. You seem to have connected....that is great! Don't beat yourself up for that. Continue to enjoy each other's company Mike....low expectations....just enjoy...after all you / we have beem through, YOU earned it! Never mind what people around you say. Follow your gut instinct.....and enjoy yourself!
lots of chemistry John....the thing that gets me is she thinks I'm awesome and tells me..and shows me..again and again and again...and it scares me chittless...it's layin it all out there again...to maybe be trashed..but I'll never know unless I just do it..me being a thinker does not help..
You're doin' good. Slowing things down - giving attention to all parts of your life - keeping balance. Even with a little excitement.
IMHO dating many at once feels a bit chaotic, off balance. That's when batchitt crazy can sneak in. Keep your focus and pace - it's a good thing for you and honors the other person.
What you describe sounds great to me. Nothing wrong with removing yourself from the field. You seem to have connected....that is great! Don't beat yourself up for that. Continue to enjoy each other's company Mike....low expectations....just enjoy...after all you / we have beem through, YOU earned it! Never mind what people around you say. Follow your gut instinct.....and enjoy yourself!
Mike - I'm in same boat with MOT35. Stopped the going to far with other women to see what happens. I mean I still flirt when out etc, but no more going and snogging over women etc and getting numders. Similarly, she seems right into me (as I've said) and although I'm really not sure. I feel she deserves my full attention and no playing as she is bending backwards to spend time with me. I know where your coming from totally, got my friends saying play it up etc all the time and part of me wants to but it's not me. Just go with it Mike, take it slow and see what happens. I'm sure in a couple of months you'll have an idea where it's going and what is that sacrafice if she could be the one ?? (The one non Batchitt you meet in your life I mean)
GL Bruv
lots of chemistry John....the thing that gets me is she thinks I'm awesome and tells me..and shows me..again and again and again...and it scares me chittless...it's layin it all out there again...to maybe be trashed..but I'll never know unless I just do it..me being a thinker does not help..
Hi Mike... thought I'd stick my head in to say hello, and see what's up in your world! Sounds like you're definitely having a little fun! Nothing wrong with that...
Thanks for the continued support.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
don't overthink...you may talk yourself out of something nice. Go with the flow...there are no guarantees...damn it...we all know that here. So if it lasts 6 days, 6 weeks, 6 years or whatever...just relax Mike....be yourself. If she digs you when you are yourself....then you are all set my friend!
she is absolutely beautiful..she knows her LL..she knows that that means..she has a clue..about men and relationships..there is a big connection and we knew it when we first talked about 3 weeks ago.and yes..I dig her..I think she is awesome...and i also dig her because she digs me..we both think it is all good..and are going real slow..as a matter of fact it's "watching grass grow slow" and right now..I have no problem with that..
