I guess I was getting some very good responses and lost some perspective. At the time I was trying not to make a big deal about it but now realize it was the wrong response. By being a bit distant got me the good results so I need to get that back. I find it a little tougher because we live in the same house and have to communicate re: dog etc.
We are still friendly, not real friends yet, but I am still trying to remove the negativity so that we may be able to move to the friends stage.
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
