That is a great question and I don't think I am "qualified" to answer it but I've thought it!
I think what eats at me is that when one willfully and knowingly commits adultery, and yet, because they were "saved" years prior to this, that they are still somehow forgiven and have not lost their salvation.
From what I have gathered, there are two thoughts of school on this. Of course, both with opposing views, so I am not sure.
It's tough one and I think that these MLCers use what I have mentioned as an excuse to continue what they are doing. Now, I am probably sounding more confusing.............
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19