No, when I said he was here, it was more a shock/surprise after our conversation and my text two days prior to that.

I do not get excited or jump for joy when he comes over, not at all.

That supposed talk would be about who he wants to spend his life with and he said it will be hurtful towward me. I told him over the phone that he will lost more than he realizes and he said he has already lost.

The main thing from that conversation is who will get hurt, according to him.

He really has not called or texted me since November, beginning of December.

And when he comes over, still get those kisses and ILY's. go figure and tell me who he wants to be with, I do not know.

If I wanted to seek revenge, I still have those texts and I could easily send them to ow. But I am not going to play that game.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19