And I understand that... and it is a spirtual battle.. and I didn't imply for you to file for divorce...and yes you have spoken your mind with him....the farthest thing from my mind for your family is divorce...and it probably will hurt your finances even more...but from what I have read especially on one of your recent posts all you said was "HE IS HERE" like you were so excited for him to come over...I told you one time I wish I could see my H like you do almost everyday... but I am not so sure now if I could take it as well as you have...
My heart went out to you when I read those 3 words.I could tell that you were so excited that he was there to maybe have that talk.... but yet again he said nothing like it was never discussed...swept under the rug. And you were left with that hurt.I know the word of God.. what it says how we should have faith and believe and not divorce but he also stated in the bible that if there is infidelty that that is the only reason that we can be set free from our marriages....
I am like you I will stand with God for my marriage restoration and healing till the day I die....but what I have read so far is him coming and going whenever he wants....all I meant is some boundaries.....he cant just not call...not text for days...and just pretend like he has not been silent.
I dont know..... maybe if I have been in your shoes for as long as you have I will see things as you see them...
My best to you and your family... gotta run going to Dr. then on to work... Be Blessed In Jesus Name...
