Please TOH do NOT take MWG's post as the all clear to end NC....think long and hard as what contact with your H has brought you over the past 18+ months. Has it been good for YOU???? I dont think God would want to see so anguished and abused as you have been. This NC is for YOU...the heck with H, work on healing you, its a slow process. The end result will be good no matter what happens to him.
As far as getting H back, many have said "Put the the oxygen mask on you 1st then the child."...
and.....think about it how many farmers have trucks w/ clearance lights? mine does!
Last edited by a new 2moro; 01/13/0901:28 PM.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
