Wow, sounds like a lot is going on. It's good he is going. It does stink for the kiddos though. But, ultimately I think this will be the deciding seperation for you both. Can he fix himself? It sounds like he is trying. He sees he is flawed. That is the first step.
I don't agree with you getting in anymore financial burdens with him though. I drew the line on that. My H wanted "us" to buy a marina (2 million) while we were seperated. He had all kinds of money making ideas and suggestions....I would never bite off on it though. He agree to rent the first 6 months we were seperated and then assess the situation.
Do you think there is OW in the picture?
PS:
I wanted to add that there is no way in heck that we have the money to afford anything he was suggesting. Not even close. We couldn't really afford the apartment he was at. We are still recovering financially from all the furniture and debts incurred. I wouldn't let him take furniture from the house. That was ours,not his and he chose to leave it. Plus if he ever came back he couldnt bring it back to my house as it would have been contaminated by the OW. Nothing came back from the apartment except my H.
Last edited by sandycay; 01/13/0901:24 PM.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
