Thought I would pop by. I read your lastest thread and sort of summed up what seems to be going on.
It's important that you continue to not always be available when he text you, email you or calls you. The 180 here for you is to wait...maybe even 24 hours before contacting him back. It will be hard.
Telling you couldn't meet up was spot on.
New interest are encouraged. The yoga is a great idea. Its good for you.
Right now you need to get focused on you becoming better. You by yourself what are you going to do with your life to be happy?
This is were I got and then I started seeing my H turn around toward me.
I got to the point where I made a choice. I was going to live the rest of my life happy....with him or without him. Was I sad over losing my family..you bet ya. But I don't want to be sad forever so I forced myself to smile and interact with random people through out the day. The responses I got back were amazing and helped build my PMA. So I figured if I was moving on with my life and he decided he would return that would be good (but he gambled on that because I wasn't going to wait forever) and if he never returned..... well that was his loss and our childrens.
Just my two cents
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
