I know MWG... you have done all you can do.....been patient and lots of prayers ,given it over to God...but how much longer should you have to put up with this?....God has given us a way out of this and he knows all that you have done...and yes he will not condemn us wanting out, but like the word of God says and I have heard you tell me many times....he does not interfere with our free will. Your husband needs to make a decision now.for your own sanity.I've seen your pain every time he leaves to go be with her.
I am blessed that I dont have to go thru that..seeing my husband leave us every day to go be with the O/W.I always thought that by him being here in town would some how make him miss his family,but by seeing your sitch it really doesn't matter whether they are in town or live far away.
I am sorry I have been so outspoken on these last 2 posts.I didn't want to offend you...but like I said it is all about YOU NOW.Just keep praying and you know that is all we can really do...only you know when to stop this craziness...as much as we love them we must face the truth and that is that they really dont want us any longer...if they really did they'd be home by now...take care of you now.....if I could be like anyone in here it would be you, because your faith has brought you to this time in your marriage...and you gave it all you can...
Please take no offense to me I just want you and your family together.Your H needs to know that you have had enough...maybe this will jar him back to reality....if he chooses not to return than so be it....like you said also we can not change them,make them do anything...but we can still pray and hope....just not giving them the opportunity to stomp on us every time they leave us for them,give them free reign to come and go as they please.Just some consolation at least he hasnt filed for divorce you know why? because he knows that what he has waiting for him at home is far better than what he has with her.....Talk at you later friend... and sister in christ
