(((Mishka))) Yes, low tension is a really good phrase - I like that a lot!
(((T))) Thanks I think we would have so much fun with yoga and recorder/cello duets!! I would love for us to hang out one day. You are right, the yoga really is worth it for me. I am going to start going once a week. Thanks for the concert wishes, we have rehearsal tonight so I will make sure I pass on your hug to Lisa.
(((ITH))) thank you for reading it's so nice to know people do, makes me feel not quite so alone in this.
H update - As h said he'd suggest another time I left it to him. He texted me last night to suggest tonight. It is funny because, although I have an important choir rehearsal tonight, my mind immediately started planning how I could get around my schedule to meet him i.e. leave work early and get the choir late. But then I thought no, there is no way he would do that for me. Work comes above me at all times and so do all other commitments. So I replied saying 'I can't tomorrow, Wednesday would be better, does that suit you?'. He hasn't replied yet. Hmmm I feel a slightly unnerved as it is the first time really that I have said no directly but choir is an important commitment for me. I suppose it is just so unusual that he is not my top priority.