Sleeper , wow are we both on the same page again. check out my last post in my thread and you can see the similarity . The worse thing is as dear W starts her slippery slide , the Kids are wanting less to do with her despite my encouragement. I hope that changes . I can emphasise with were you are at , I to struggle with the thought that there could ever be a reconciliation with my W. All I can say is just take things slow , dont be in a hurry to enter a new R . The question is if she was to figure it out and realy start making changes she needs to make and there was a chance of reuniting your family what would you do?
I dont have the answer , just giving you stuff to think over .