I can say that drinking is a choice you make. I quit on my own. Are there times when I want to hit the bar again, Yes there are especially when times are tense with my wife. But I choose not to because I know what problems it caused to get to this point. My wife still wants out but for more reasons than my drinking the past 11 years. Its also because she just wants someone different. But none the less, choosing to drink or not is a choice you make each day. How you handle your stress or happiness is a choice you make. I haven't figured out how to be happy yet with my situation, but I have chosen not to drink to esacpe.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...