Techguy, Thanks for checking in - I appreciate it - and am heading over to your thread right after I finish this post.
Veronica, Thank you for your reminder about the in-laws - they do have to side with their daughter...I guess it just surprised me because my parents are more like your mom...My father embraced my W when he last saw her - and offered her nothing but his love - and understanding - while my mother wanted me to bring a christmas present back for me W - I had to tell her it was just not a good idea - and there was no idea it could go over well...I suppose it's just that lack of grace, as you describe it.
And thanks as well for the reminder to let it go....I do have enough on my plate already...I want just what conspiracy of moments, tides, fluctuations, pauses, sleepless nights, empty garages, overwhelming change and simple exhaustion made me feel so fragile today....(and I am laughing at myself right now...so that's a good sign, I think...).
