Your W is in replay now. She's going to party and she won't care how it affects you. I think you need to be more vague when you answer her. The more mysterious you are the more she'll want to be with you.
I remember what my W's GF told me after I went a day without calling my W. She told me that my W kept trying to figure out where I went. Then when my W called me, I told her I had to go. Even though I was at the movies alone, I wasn't going to let her know it.
They notice, but they're not going to let you know their watching. Try to be vague of your whereabouts and keep her wondering. Soon the OM won't seem so interesting.
