When she throws out the shoe on the other foot crap do you call her on it? The shoe is not on the other foot. You did NOT have an Affair. I think you need to let her know how little she is fulfilling your needs while you are doing everything in your power to fill hers. Time for the hard talk me thinks or things will get worse in your mind.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory