Upside
sounds good--seems like your H is moving froward steadily
this si just my opinion
I would not stop MC
maybe just go and listen to H if you dont want to pressure him
but I would continue
and maybe talk to C about it in an individual session
I like what your doing not overanalyzing any thing
i think it helps us and our situations to be less focused on H
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow