Upside sounds good--seems like your H is moving froward steadily this si just my opinion I would not stop MC maybe just go and listen to H if you dont want to pressure him but I would continue and maybe talk to C about it in an individual session I like what your doing not overanalyzing any thing i think it helps us and our situations to be less focused on H peace
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