I was just reading a segment in a Stormie OMartian book about marital problems.
She says that this "NC" or going dark is not always a good thing. She says that if a person does this for a long period of time, your spouse will seek comfort elsewhere.
I am just saying what I read in the book.
And I must add that what works for one, does not necessarily work for another.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
