Originally Posted By: whatdidido
So, if you told her that the only way you'll stay in this marriage is if she does x, y, and z, you really think she will say she wants to divorce? I don't get that feeling.


I contend that she is saying that! By her ACTIONS.

Isn't that what we teach around here, that it's ACTIONS, not WORDS? So what words could H4U's wife possibly say to him (not that I think she'd say them anyway) that would mean more than the actions she's been displaying for the past year???

I'm not saying he should give up. I admire him fighting for his marriage. But what I AM saying is that she's not going to do ANYTHING until he forces her into her own crucible. That seems to be the only thing she's responded to.

Puppy