So I guess the way I see it is, I HAVE told her what I need and she refuses to even meet me half way.
And the no relationship talks are her choice, not mine. I've clearly stated at least 3 times in the last 9 months that I NEED to discuss how/why this happened so she can let it go and I can feel safe that it won't happen again and every time she's said "if the roles were reversed, I wouldn't want to talk about it". I guess it just makes me feel like she doesn't want to let go of it and doesn't feel like our marriage and our kids are worth it. So isn't it easy to see why I'm building up this wall around me?
Does that sound like someone who comes even close to wanting to face what they've done and help the one person that's stood by them through EVERYTHING heal?
