Hi MWG, I have been reading in here for only a few months...I have read where you have been so patient and loving with your husband.but I have to agree with snodderly.He has to have some sort of boundaries.you have been so patient with the sitch but You dont deserve such treatment any longer...
You know I am with you 100% when it comes to standing,but setting boundaries doesnt mean you have stop standing...it has been way too comfortable for him to do as he pleases..

I know God will bring you peace and real joy one day but in the meantime it is now your turn....you have paid long enough and have stood by him long enough...now it has to be your WAY OR THE HIGHWAY.God will not hold this against you you have done everything the Lord has asked of you....been obedient...prayed..read the word of God...went to church.treid everything but he is still sitting on the fence to this day....

I wish you well MWG... you are the bomb in my eyes wish your husband could see you in that light I pray that he will very very soon... you have encouraged me since I came here... and I want what you want and that is for your husband to come home...

5 yrs. is a long time to have to wait....I am not saying give it up I know you never will, but dont make it so easy for him
God's peace be wtih you...

Last edited by IRMAC; 01/13/09 02:05 AM.

Done 01/2014