Maybe I should be in piecing part 5?

[Hope4us]

I do see Hope's wife trying. Any woman, who has done what she did, and came back to the marriage is trying. She came back, knowing that others know what she did (her kids even)and she has faced those people. She is trying.

See WDID. This may be where we differ. I don't see her coming back to the marriage. The last time we "talked" about this she said to me "I can't tell you I want to try because I don't have 'those' feelings for you so I wouldn't be doing either of us any good to tell you 'I want to try'"

The time before that that we talked she said to me "I just thought we could get along until S16 graduates from H.S. and complete giving him a 'normal' upbringing".

Does that sound like someone who's come back to the marriage?