The one that runs so furiously on the little wheel that is in my head, and gets nowhere.
I, instead, enticed the hamster off of the wheel with a chew treat.
The chew treat went something like this....
"Right before your W went all MLCey, how was your M? Was it something that gave the both of you great pleasure and satisfaction? No, it wasn't. You could see that by how she moped around, and all the other ways you could tell that she just wasn't happy. And because something was wrong with her, you weren't happy either, right? Do you want to go back to that? No? Good. Because you can't anyway."
"So this is going to go down one of two ways- either she will wake up in her own good time, or she won't. If she doesn't, do you want her back like she is now? Broken? Not facing reality? Living in a trumped up fantasy world that can't possibly reward her with the lasting happiness that comes from being a whole person? Of course not. Because that is not your W. That is a shell of what once was. She wouldn't be happy, and neither would you."
"On the other hand, if she does wake up, she will be whole. And whether she loves you or not when she comes out, she will be better off for her experience, having worked through her issues. And if you TRULY love her as you claim, then her being whole means more to you than all the gold in the world- whether she comes back to you or not."
"One way or another, you will move on to the good. It will all work out the way it is supposed to."
"Shut up- God is trying to bless you."
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo
