Thanks Snodderly.

This situation really breaks my heart. I really do feel for my H b/c by having another D, he is only creating himself more problems down the road.... just adding onto his load. But I know I cannot do anything to help him and he has to do it himself.

I agree with the papers but will not sign. I would like to stall and give it more time. Not sure if that will happen but that's what I am aiming for. I will be there for him as much as he will let me.

I will keep praying for my H and our M.


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09