we will forget more and more about them, they will pop up occasionally to annoy us, but we will be less and less inclined to let them bother us, because we'll have better things to think about.
I hope so!!! Did you see my email I was going to send or do you think i shouldn't send it? He's still trying to say the OW had nothing to do with our marriage--well actually he started treating me like cr*p and I got more depressed--so I haven't really changed my mind about that...I don't think you can just walk away from and R and not work on your #s and just expect them to disappear. Karen