I agree with whatdid. She isn't a mind reader. If you need to see x out of her to know that she gets it or is trying you need to tell her. It is hard. I am glad that your WAS is at least in a position to make it work. Don't take that for granted.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory