For you, actually doing some arguing, or better yet, just doing things without her "approval" or input has been a big 180. In your stitch, actually broaching this subjects is a great change.
Another open discussion might need to be in the works. The question is, do you want to do it in MC or at home?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2