True, I'm glad you are feeling better, but take it slow. This bug is one that loves to linger for many weeks.
Your h reconnected w/someone he hadn't spoken to in quite some time. It's interesting that he would admit that he's in mlc and give her a general idea as to where he was at. I think he wanted this information to get back to you and he knew that she would tell you. Your h isn't acting strangely at all....he's following the book. Yes, he forgot your birthday, but I bet he won't next year!
Being ill doesn't help w/the emotions. You are feeling tired and vulnerable. We all get that way when we aren't feeling well. You'll be up and about in no time and feeling stronger once again. I do think that being house bound has stirred up your emotions a bit and also hearing from your friend and her passing along the information didn't help your emotional state right now.
True, take care of yourself. Lots of TLC!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
