Cinders congratulations. Like you I'm finding the urge to come here less and less. In fact on my way home from work today I realised I hadn't been here for a few days. In the past this website was virtually never off my computer. I do still intend to visit but the support mechanism that was so vital in the early days is not so vital now as I have learned from everyone here how to cope and most importantly that I am worthy of a good life with or without H.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15