No my H does not know what will hit him.. I do all the finances too for our family so I think it will be a shock when he can't afford the condo or house he wants and can't go on trips with out paying for it in credit cards... nice huh.
I will not be that wife that sit around separated for year or more just because... if he doesn't file this month I will in Feb b/c I do want the finances split up so I don't have to do it for him anymore.. we'll see. I have to keep praying that God will take care of me and girls financially.
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Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08