So ask her Jeff. What are you afraid of? You know what the worst is, right?
Sit her down and ask her straight to her face.
Yep. That's what has to happen.
But I need to be more prepared for what she will say. After the letter she said she didn't know what she wants, and then she threw the guilt trip about the kids. I don't have any reason to believe that anything has changed, so I need to be more ready for that. If I haven't said it before, she is a very good "arguer". If you are not ready she will make you think you don't have a clue. If you are ready you might survive alive!
