Sophie, It's his perception of how things went down. You and your children know otherwise, so let it roll off your back. You can't change his perception of life right now, but later on down the road, his perception will change and the rose colored glasses will be removed.
Keep walking forward. Do not believe a thing he says and on 50% of what he does.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
