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I know that is her primary motivation


No you don't.
If it was yours you would know, you think it is hers. Little stick whack. Stop knowing your wife, you don't.

I asked you why you were doing what you did, and I am glad that you answered for you. That is important...so is consistency. Nothing says wishy-washy like flip flopping.
But do for you Frank, for what you want.



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